I read something recently that talked about how budgeting can put a damper on your life in ways that you might not realize. The things it talked about I actually resonated with me as I've experienced a lot of them.. When you first start out budgeting, or just trying to save money, some people take things to extremes. You NEVER go out to eat, you NEVER go to a movie, you NEVER buy that shirt that your desperately need, and you never see your friends. Because as we all know, friends = money! So, where is the line? When do you start sacrificing your happiness and personal life for money? Some people learn the hard way, as I have in the past.
Budgeting to such an extreme can lead to binge shopping, binge eating, as well as ruining relationships in your life. Sounds harsh I know, but I've seen it happen. Don't get mad quite yet, I definitely understand you can see friends without spending money. There are just a lot more triggers to spend money when other people are around, understandably.
Once you start budgeting and it actually makes you unhappy, or makes you miss important people and events in your life, then it's gone to far. You have to just start small and work from there. Create a realistic budget that doesn't fully stop you from doing things you enjoy, it will just be an adjusted version. Don't stop going to see movies with friends, just go less often and maybe suggest going for a walk or a bike ride one day instead. You get a lot more quality time walking or biking then you do in a movie theater anyways.
Do you think budgeting can be taken too far?
